I’m staring at the cursor on the computer screen, albeit a bit distractedly, because out of the corners of my eyes are two pairs of tiny hands and feet.
Last year those hands and feet looked like this
Last year I blogged the transfer decision I made on my valium induced high to transfer two embryos. The two embryos that turned into Miles:
And Miss Abby:
Last year I wrote a post about Bryan and I, and how we met, because our anniversary happened to be the day after the transfer. I wrote about how I knew he was going to be a great father and I couldn’t wait to make him one. We didn’t do anything for our anniversary that day because he was working out of town. I don’t remember what we said to each other. I do remember not so patiently wondering what the result of our IVF was going to be (I know this is quite shocking to all of you). When I think back on last year I remember feeling a big mixture of feelings. I anticipated good news as much as I dreaded bad. I wondered how we’d afford more treatment, how much longer it could take if it didn’t work. I felt incredibly thankful we could afford it in the first place and that I had such a great man by my side who stuck with me despite all my craziness. I felt a bit empty, like something (or someone(s)) was missing.
This year as I type and watch the babies play, squeal and blow raspberries I again feel a mixture of things. I feel grateful for my family. I feel humbled by motherhood and the journey we took to get here. I feel excited for whats to come. I feel pain for those who are still trudging along in infertility. I think about last year and I feel how I felt then. I feel serene, at peace. It’s an interesting mix.
This year we have another low key anniversary day planned. We both work so there isn’t much time for anything fancy anyway. We are going to leave work, pick up the babies and go to dinner at Red Lobster for no other reason than its close by and Bryan wants all you can eat shrimp. Sure its kinda lame, but we are going to celebrate our 3rd year of marriage together – all four of us.
As a family.
This year, I feel full.
September 9, 2013 at 7:07 pm
September 9, 2013 at 8:28 pm
Happy anniversary!! 🙂
September 9, 2013 at 8:35 pm
I think that’s a great anniversary! Nothing lame at all when you are doing something you want and enjoy with people you love and enjoy! Happy anniversary!
September 9, 2013 at 9:34 pm
Happy Anniversary! 🙂
September 9, 2013 at 9:53 pm
Love this! Happy anniversary!
September 9, 2013 at 10:01 pm
Happy Anniversary! We celebrated our 3rd anniversary 5 days ago! 🙂
September 11, 2013 at 9:24 am
Cool that its so close :). Thanks!
September 10, 2013 at 2:49 am
Please tell me how you are going to have dinner with the babies with you! If you have a secret about this please, please share… HAHA Congratulations by the way! Big hug to the two of you!
September 11, 2013 at 9:27 am
Uh.. I dunno about a secret. We’ve taken them out since they were newborns. Sometimes I have to feed them during dinner but otherwise they’re pretty content. Does your lo give you trouble? Maybe we are just lucky!
September 11, 2013 at 8:49 pm
Well he used to be asleep while we dined out but now he is usually awake and he lets us know that he is not having a great time in the stroller…
September 11, 2013 at 9:13 pm
Yeah we got that today too. Maybe it’s an age thing
September 11, 2013 at 9:14 pm
I am afraid you might be right…
September 10, 2013 at 2:57 am
Happy anniversary! We celebrate our 3rd anniversary in October 🙂
September 11, 2013 at 9:23 am
Cool! Happy anniversary to you too!
September 11, 2013 at 10:33 pm
Awww happy anniversary!! Our 4th is coming up next month!
September 12, 2013 at 7:17 am
Happy anniversary to you too!!