We cheated.

After a Google search early on the in the pregnancy I discovered that there was a local place that specifically does extra ultrasounds….and claimed they could figure out the sex as early as 16 weeks. Not only did I really want to know what we were having, but we also hadn’t seen the babies since the 8 week ultrasound when the babies were the size of gummy bears. I couldn’t resist. I just couldn’t. Plus, this would give the opportunity to reveal the sexes to my parents on Christmas. I had originally planned to schedule it right before we left, around 17+2, but when I called the lady told me more often that not with twins one doesn’t cooperate and so you’ll have to go back. (If they can’t figure it out the first time they’ll do another for free within 14 days) So we actually scheduled it for 16+2, just in case.
The business, called See Me 3D, was a mere 10 minutes away and operated out of an old house. Basically it was a little waiting area and then a larger room with a ultrasound machine that projected onto a large TV on the wall. The entire thing was recorded onto a DVD set to classical music, and included 2d and 3d images. I’d always thought 3d ultrasounds looked a little on the creepy side, and actually still do, but when its your baby/babies up there, its much more miraculous than creepy.
As instructed I consumed my coffee (caffeine to help them be movers) and felt appropriately hyped up and hopped up on the table. The lovely cold goo was squeezed onto my stomach – my first ever non dildo wand ultrasound.
Wow.
The babies – they looked like babies. Like little humans. With arms and legs, noses and eyes. I was mesmorised by the bones, the spine, the fact that I could see two brain hemispheres. It was just about the coolest thing ever. In fact I kept commenting on how cool it was that I could see all of that. And they were moving.
They didn’t cooperate well at first. One had legs crossed and the other with a hand over the money shot. After about 10 minutes she had me get up to pee and try again, saying sometimes it’ll create a little more room.
It worked.
We saw Baby A first. A boy.
Baby B took a bit more wriggling. But in the end she finally gave up too. A girl.
A boy and a girl.
Bubbles and Squishy are a boy and a girl.
How perfect.

Later on we bought the two bears seen above- Bryan made the tags. We wrapped them up and gave them to my parents to unwrap at Christmas. My mom was totally surprised. My dad said he suspected we might, as apparently one of us mentioned having some sort of special present to open. Considering I barely managed to keep my mouth shut for the week and a half beforehand, I’m surprised neither of us said anything more.
Best Christmas Ever.
December 28, 2012 at 5:05 pm
Ooo, the best possible outcome! We did something similar with our gender reveal on Christmas. Blog post coming soon. Congrats on the little boy AND the little girl!
December 28, 2012 at 5:44 pm
Can’t wait to read it!! Thanks!!
December 28, 2012 at 5:30 pm
oh sweetie how PERFECT!!!!!! I’m so happy for you! congrats!
December 28, 2012 at 5:44 pm
Thank you!!!
December 28, 2012 at 5:33 pm
Yay all around! What a great story 🙂
December 29, 2012 at 8:30 am
Hubby and I could hardly wait. My sister had spent xmas eve with her fiancees family and didn’t get back until almost noon. We were going nuts!
December 28, 2012 at 5:49 pm
Wow!!! Best news ever!! Congrats!
December 29, 2012 at 8:29 am
agreed! Thank you!
December 28, 2012 at 5:52 pm
Awesome — congratulations!
December 29, 2012 at 8:30 am
thank you!
December 28, 2012 at 8:12 pm
Aw, how perfect! I’m so very happy for you, Theresa!
December 29, 2012 at 8:28 am
thanks friend!!
December 28, 2012 at 11:44 pm
Congrats! Amazing thing to see. So happy for you!
December 29, 2012 at 8:29 am
Thank you – we are very excited!
December 29, 2012 at 12:06 am
That really is perfect!!!!
December 29, 2012 at 8:29 am
🙂
December 29, 2012 at 9:45 am
Congrats! Very exciting news for you and your family! Now you better get going on names! 🙂 B and I decided we are not going to find out the sex of the babies…so we will need 2 girls names and 2 boys names just in case!
December 29, 2012 at 11:49 am
Wow you are brave! I couldn’t do that! We have names we like, we just haven’t committed 100%. Close though!
December 29, 2012 at 11:10 am
Yay! Definitely worth the cheating:-)
December 29, 2012 at 11:44 am
Congrats!!!! That is so perfect.
December 29, 2012 at 2:52 pm
Aw! Congratulations!! Any combination of sexes would have been great of course, but there is something fun about one of each. 🙂
December 29, 2012 at 4:41 pm
One of each- how perfect!!! Congrats!
December 30, 2012 at 4:38 am
Yay! That’s great! So funny about the ultrasound place hahaha
December 31, 2012 at 8:39 am
congrats!!!
December 31, 2012 at 8:43 am
Ooooooo, I love when it’s a boy and a girl! So much fun. My BFF had b/g twins after an IUI and they are so much fun! Big congrats, Mama!
December 31, 2012 at 1:13 pm
Love this!! I love this type of outcome, but I’m a bit biased since my sister had one of each. 🙂
January 2, 2013 at 1:58 pm
I came across your blog a month ago. I will be starting IVF this year and I am so excited for you and your husband. Congrats on everything and best wishes for an even better 2013 for you!
January 2, 2013 at 2:07 pm
Thanks! Best of luck with your IVF – if you have any questions, please feel free to ask!