If you are going by “conception date”, i.e. the day my eggs and Bryan’s sperm fertilized in a petri dish (how romantic – do you think they kissed or held hands first or just went at it?), I am 7 weeks pregnant today.
I still wouldn’t believe it were twins if it weren’t for the ultrasound, and the fact that I already look as though I’ve eaten a bit too much pizza. In my teens and early twenties this would have sent me into a tizzy of exercise and diet but today I’ve never been happier to look like I am pizza’s number one fan. (GO PIZZA!)
I’ve still been a bit gun shy about this whole thing, but after last weeks’ ultrasound I finally downloaded a few pregnancy apps on my phone. It’s been fun and interesting to track week to week (well, 6 to 7 since I’ve only had them a week) and read some of the daily tips, except for the fact that every.single.app talks about how ” well you probably don’t feel pregnant until you vomit up your lunch”. Oh, and those most likely to be sick? Those pregnant with multiples. I feel like an anomaly.
I know that some don’t get morning sickness until later, and I may be eating these words in the next few weeks, who knows. Or rather, vomiting them. But so far I have been blissfully morning sickness free. The only problem with this is that it makes me worry there is something wrong, despite that fact that PLENTY of women ( and one I know who had twins in fact) didn’t have any morning sickness. I do have a bit of nausea if I don’t eat frequently enough, but I don’t think that counts.
For a size comparison, a 6 weeks the embryo is about the size of a grain of rice. At 7 weeks its a blueberry. At 7 weeks vital organs are forming. Ears, eyes, arm and leg buds. It’s crazy. I remember learning in school about the development of the ears/mouth etc and how an issue like cleft palate was likely due to an issue with development in the first few weeks of pregnancy, but now that it’s actually happening it’s even crazier.
But it looks like an alien. For real. This is one apps’ depiction:
Man I hope I don’t have nightmares about birthing aliens now. Alien blueberries.
I still worry- namely about the 8 week ultrasound, because I’ve seen the stories out there about babies with heartbeats at 6 week ultrasounds and no heartbeats at 8 week ultrasounds. This is the biggest hump for me right now. From what I understand though, the worry never stops, not even after you give birth. One mom simply told me “welcome to motherhood”.
Well damn.
Bryan already talks to them. He kissed my stomach when he left to go back out of town. No matter how detached I try to stay “just in case”, I already love them. We both do. Please, alien blueberries, continue to grow and be healthy.
I will buy you both a pony.
October 10, 2012 at 9:09 pm
Aww! This is so sweet. How could you not already love your alien blueberries?! 🙂
October 10, 2012 at 9:10 pm
I’ve only tried out of protection of my own heart should something happen, but it too late I already love them. 🙂
October 10, 2012 at 9:29 pm
I can only imagine. I was already loving the picture of our embryo!
October 10, 2012 at 9:31 pm
it’s hard to not get attached from the get go. I still have ALL my fingers crossed!!!
October 10, 2012 at 10:29 pm
Theresa, I’m so happy for you two! You both are going to make such fantastic and loving parents. I’m sending all of my love to the babies and praying they stay snug in your womb for at least 30 more weeks. 🙂 And start posting pics of your belly soon. I can’t wait to watch you grow! X’s!!!!
October 10, 2012 at 10:35 pm
Grow little Alien Blueberries. Grow!
Yay for Pizza! Yay for Belly pics. Yay for twins OMG just YAY for you in general 🙂
October 11, 2012 at 6:50 am
^^^^ my thoughts exactly 🙂
October 11, 2012 at 1:24 am
But would an alien blueberry know what to do with a pony?
I hope you stay morning sickness free! I was so so sick for like 5 weeks (I guess weeks 7-12) I just didn’t know what to do with myself. It was horrendous. But I only vomited once!
October 11, 2012 at 4:41 am
I feel like I could have written this post. Who would have thought we’d be wishing for morning sickness? I too tried not to get attached but it’s so hard when you see them in all of their blobness on the ultrasound screen! Those blueberries know what’s best for them and will stay put – especially with promises of ponies!
October 11, 2012 at 7:33 am
The thing that’s so great about IVF is that the entire cycle was taken out of your hands and you are now pregnant with the best of the bunch. For me, my miscarriages were a result of faulty fetus’, so once I knew that the two best embryos were back in I felt a little more at ease. As far as morning sickness with multiples… mine didn’t start until later. Advice? Buy yourself some of those candies at the checkout counter at the grocery store. They come in a round container and are sour. I ate those for morning sickness…only thing I found that made it better! XX
October 11, 2012 at 8:05 am
Nausea counts as morning sickness! I was constantly nauseous throughout the day starting about 10 weeks… maybe even a little later. If I ate too much, if I didn’t eat enough, if I ate the wrong thing (and everything was the wrong thing, except – funny enough – pizza).
Alien blueberries… that’s adorable. 🙂
I’m so excited for you and glad to be able to share this new journey!
October 11, 2012 at 9:09 am
Isn’t it crazy… I think I will feel some relief once I am discharged next week.. By then I will be 8 weeks… Once you hear the heartbeats consistent you feel amazing
October 11, 2012 at 12:36 pm
GO PIZZA! GO ALIEN BLUEBERRIES! Too funny.
You know, if the twins ever get to see this blog, they are going to hold you to that pony promise…. 🙂
October 11, 2012 at 2:04 pm
Crystalized ginger, and ginger tea if people are having morning sickness
October 13, 2012 at 7:00 am
I’m as far along as you, and I haven’t had morning sickness yet either – just unsettled feelings and strong aversions. It starts to make me worry, but I keep telling myself that symptoms are really meaningless – a pregnancy can progress or not progress whether they are there or not. So try to enjoy feeling so well!
October 15, 2012 at 8:01 am
I hope your little alien blueberries continue to thrive… And that you never feel sick. My bestie had healthy twins and wasn’t sick either. I, however, was miserable for about a month and a half starting around 7 weeks:( Yuck! Eat frequently and get those candies, just in case… They provide temporary relief, but its better than nothing.
I’m soooo happy that things are going well!
October 16, 2012 at 8:47 pm
Omg! I’m watching breaking Amish! I dOnt know what is scarier… Ghost Hunters or breaking Amish! This creeps me out so bad!
October 16, 2012 at 9:08 pm
Don’t tell me I haven’t watched Sundays show yet! 🙂
October 18, 2012 at 10:12 pm
Ah, little blueberries. May you grow strong and healthy….