My first week in 18 weeks with no scheduled runs (well, except the one I scheduled with a friend, for fun) and I was excited about the idea of being able to sleep in this Saturday morning.
Naturally, I woke up on my own at 6:30am.
Interestingly, many marathon runners talk about “Post Marathon Blues”. I found quite a few articles and also quite a few blogs on the topic. When you follow a running plan for 4+ months, and suddenly it isn’t there, it’ s weird. When your life is almost literally scheduled around training and suddenly its gone, it’s weird. Almost empty, like something is missing. Running has an addictive quality to it. Distance running especially, as you can experience the “runners high” more than once during a long run (or none at all during a particularly crappy one, it is a bit of a gamble). Personally, I think signing up for a couple 5k’s in the next few weeks and changing focus to having a family helps, but its totally legit……and I admit I do feel a little…..unorganized. I found myself just a mere few days later, researching half marathons. I was seriously considering the Diva Half Marathon in Myrtle Beach….because any half marathon involving a tiara, roses and a boa would totally rule (yes, I said it would rule), until I realized that not only is it the same weekend as my sisters college graduation, but that I will hopefully be newly pregnant from our IVF, and therefore not going to happen. I’m supposed to be taking a break from long runs. I think I have an addiction.
Hi, my name is Theresa, and I am a run-aholic.
Maybe I can get a rollerbladers high? Or a yogi-high? Or perhaps a bikers-high?
And most importantly, what am I going to blog about on Saturdays?
The phenomenon seems to happen because you spend months planning and following a schedule with an ultimate goal in mind: to finish a marathon, to take a vacation, to buy a house, but get so wrapped up in the planning of the actual event that you forget to plan for afterwards. And for those of you who are balking at the thought of all this planning, it must be a runner thing. Or a Type A personality thing. Take your pick.
Admittedly, I have some mixed emotions. It was a bit sad to reset the 4:10 time on my watch. There is a definite strange emptiness to not having a planned run 4 days a week at a certain distance or a goal, but I’m looking forward to strapping on my rollerblades periodically instead of my running shoes. Or take a yoga class, join a gym again and dance awkwardly at Zumba, or hop on my lovely pink and purple bike on Saturday morning.
I’ll still be running though. I have a couple small races in mind until we get knee deep in IVF. It’s in my blood. And I’m pretty sure that when I do have a child, he or she is going to come running out of the womb and into my jogging stroller. While I do miss the training a little, I’m looking forward to what’s next.
Plus some rollerblading.
(And no, its not just for the 80’s anymore)
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*For those participating in ICLW with Blogger and Blogspot blogs – I am having issues leaving comments. It simply won’t let me. If you have commented on my blog, most likely I have attempted to comment back without success. Anyone else having this issue??
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January 22, 2012 at 2:12 pm
Ah yes. The running addiction. I could be in a support group with you. I felt so lost and empty after training for the marathon relay I did. Granted I only ran 7.1 miles but that was the longest I’d ever run to date. I did high school track and was the short distance runner. I have grown to love long distance and it is killing me to not plan out some runs. I did register for some 5ks in April and June. I figure by then I’ll be pregnant so I can walk/jog or I’ll be pissed that IVF didn’t work so I’ll need to run to pound out the anger! Either way…
Have fun with your rollerblading… yoga…. awkward Zumba!
January 22, 2012 at 6:28 pm
Running is great for anger. Hopefully you won’t have to do that. Hopefully we will both be walking through future 5ks this Spring/Summer!!
January 22, 2012 at 2:30 pm
I can understand how you feel, even though I hadn’t been running that long when I had to stop. If I’m not pregnant at the end of next week, I’ll start back again while I take a rest month. I hate admitting this, but yup, I’ve even looked at running strollers!
As for the comments, yes, I’m having the same problem. I use Internet Explorer, and if I open the blog in firefox I don’t have the same issues. I’m not sure what’s going on, but it’s starting to annoy me!
January 22, 2012 at 3:09 pm
I’ve been having the same issue with blogger and blogspot. Making it very difficult to do ICLW lol.
I wish I loved running like you do. It seems like such a great way to escape and forget about your issues. But alas, I am hopeless and I hate it. 😉
January 22, 2012 at 3:23 pm
I felt the same when I finally finished my Master’s Thesis. And then again after my last exam for my correspondence class in computer science. And after I gave up on writing my Master’s Thesis for that program.
It’s like there’s a hole that needs to be filled in your life where all the runs; or studying sessions used to be.
I’m almost afraid that it will be similar after the IVF, when there are no more injections and doc’s appointments.
I also have the blogger problem. I use Firefox. I can only leave comments on blogspot blogs if they have the Name/URL option enabled. Annoying indeed.
January 22, 2012 at 6:26 pm
I’m having the same issue with the Name/URL option. Someone else said Internet Explorer worked for them, but for me it didn’t.
January 22, 2012 at 3:59 pm
Happy ICLW! You are not the first person I heard of that is having problems posting comments in blogger. I don’t know whats up with it though.
I think the blues that you talk about comes with any big project. A lot of brides have that after they get through the big wedding they spent years planning. I even get it with little things, like finishing a big crafting project that I spent months or years working on. Actually, hubby and I watched a show from beginning to end, 64 episodes in 6 days (we had a lot of bad weather that week). And since I like to rewatch shows while I’m crafting, I have had a hard time figuring out what to watch now that we are done with such a good show in such a short time. I watched the first 3 episodes of 4 different shows before I settled on one. I also just finished a really deep book that left an impression in my life and my thought process and now I can’t seem to find another book that will grab my interest. Part of me fears that that will happen once we are finally successful in getting pregnant.
January 22, 2012 at 6:25 pm
I had that same thought about getting pregnant, but hopefully we’ll be too consumed with buying baby stuff and the baby him/herself to worry about that 🙂
January 23, 2012 at 12:01 am
I make it a goal to always have a race in the works, because I have experienced those marathon blues more than once. Stopping by from ICLW- and I must say I am thrilled to have found your blog. We have some very fortunate and unfortunate commonalities. I’m adding you to my reader and sending well wishes your way.
January 23, 2012 at 1:29 pm
I just want to say I LOVE the name of your blog. I want to apologize ahead of time if I am unable to comment — I have been having issues commenting on blogger and blogspot blogs. Thanks for the well wishes!!
January 23, 2012 at 10:49 am
Oh this is interesting. I started running in between IVF-cycles to ease off the frustration which was great. When my first 10km road race rolled around I was already on the meds. Just another week was needed to go through with it. But I wouldn’t change a thing since the cycle worked. But I got hooked on running so yeah, been thinking about a good stroller for that.
I also need that name/url option on blogger blogs. It’s actually very easy to change in the settings for those who wants too so I guess it’s up to the owner of the blog as well. I recently switched from blogger to wordpress. A much better platform I’d say.
January 23, 2012 at 1:30 pm
I’m still planning to run small races and distances until I’m told not to. I don’t see any reason to drastically change my lifestyle, especially exercise/healh wise. I had a blogger blog a few years ago and have to say I like wordpress better.
January 23, 2012 at 12:59 pm
Congrats on your marathon! I did a half marathon last year and that was long enough for me! 🙂
I was having problems posting and switched to Google Chrome as my browser. Haven’t had any problems since then.
ICLW #17
January 23, 2012 at 1:31 pm
HA! Be careful! I said the same thing after my first half! It took me two years but I Eventually decided I wanted to try a full. Never say never!
I had issues with Google Chrome, too. Grrr.
January 24, 2012 at 4:36 pm
I had gotten so addicted to running. I’m on a doctor recommended week long break due some some tibial band pain but the weather has been just so perfect, it has been rather torturous. I try and just walk but then I just get into it and start running. I am running my first 5k in the end of March and another in April and hoping to gradually keep going. Thanks for visiting my blog!
January 26, 2012 at 9:01 pm
Wow! Congrats on the marathon! I did my first-ever half and then had to switch gears for IVF. Totally miss running. It’s what got me through this whole infertility roller coaster.
January 26, 2012 at 9:06 pm
Thanks! I’m definitely going to miss it during ivf. I’ll plan to walk a lot when I can!